Tuesday, July 27, 2010

You don't have to react to everything


You can't control your emotions but you CAN control your reactions to them. There will be times when people will test the shit out of you but most of the time it's best that you don't act off of impulse and emotion because it could ruin a revenge that could be sweeter with silence.


An emotional response to anything is the biggest barrier to pay back. It's a mistake that will cost alot more that any short-lived happiness from cursing someone the fuck out. You never wanna let someone know you're upset because that gives them time to prepare for what could be coming. The reason why acting off emotion is so dangerous is because if you can't see a situation clearly then you can't solve it with any sense of control, especially if you're angry.


Anger is one of the most lethel of all the emotional responses because it clouds your vision the most. Not to mention, the word ANGER is one letter short of DANGER. Take it from me, if your looking to get back at someone who has hurt you, its far better to kill em with success or kill em two years later when he's completely forgot about what happened.




Just kidding. :)

Thursday, July 1, 2010

Hello, I'm Clingy.


"Some people's circles are like revolving doors" -Brook Carter. I don't understand how women are uber chummy and become fast/best friends with everyone they meet. It amazes me how someone meets on Monday and by Wednesday they're already hanging out everyday and sharing their deepest darkest secrets. Are you really that lonely? Or that naive that you believe everyone who smiles in your face is your friend?



I would think that you would want to trust everyone you're around completely and how can you do so when you've only know someone for a month. In my opinion, women need to start being more cautious with who they let in their circle and stop being so hard up for companionship. Honestly, I would rather be friendless than have a bunch of friends who secretly hate me and tell my business.



At this age, your circle should be air tight and who you hang out with should be irrelevant to who you are as a person. If you have a new best friend every other week clearly, YOU have a problem.






Note: This is not directed at anyone in particular BUT it is directed toward every chick who has a problem getting and keeping friends...and actually cares enough to befriend any and everyone they meet.
You know, the clingy bitch.