Welcome to Heartbreak

Emotional infidelity is worse than having just a sexual affair. I imagine the most misused word in every dictionary is love. People say, "I love you," with their mouth, not their heart.

Time changes all things.

"This is an important lesson to remember when you’re having a bad day, a bad month, or a shitty year. Things will change: you won’t feel this way forever. And anyway, sometimes the hardest lessons to learn are the ones your soul needs most. I believe you can’t feel real joy unless you know what it means to fail. You can’t know what it’s like to feel holy until you know what it’s like to feel really fucking evil. And you can’t be birthed again until you’ve died."

Truth, please!

"I doubt that fidelity is absolutely essential for a relationship. ... Neither Brad nor I have ever claimed that living together means being chained together. We make sure that we never restrict each other." -Angelina Jolie.



All I asked was that you don't lie about it. *kanye shrug*

After twenty-five years, farewell.

"Be thankful for what you have; you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never, ever have enough." -Oprah




When my mother died, Oprah showed me the way. I will forever be grateful.

Who ya with?

"In Life, you will be criticized more from losers than you will winners. Be selective of whom you choose to listen to." - Necole Bitchie

Who ya with?

"You know what they say, the company we choose is always a reflection of our character so the people around me reflect who I am. Winners don’t hang out with losers, and if you are a winner surrounded by a bunch of losers, then the perception people will have of you is that you’re a loser too!" — Charlamagne Tha God



Keep ya circle tight.

Just because it's over doesn't mean you didnt learn anything

“People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that’s what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life. A true soul mate is probably the most important person you’ll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so out of control that you have to transform your life…”

Beauty is her name

"If your exterior does not match your interior, you will always fall short. Beauty may be skin deep but ugly is to the bone."




Physical beauty can hide a cold heart and a flawed character. It's a jungle out here, baby. Clearly, everything that glitters ISN'T gold.

You don't have to react to everything

You can't control your emotions but you CAN control your reactions to them. There will be times when people will test the shit out of you but most of the time it's best that you don't act off of impulse and emotion because it could ruin a revenge that could be sweeter with silence.


An emotional response to anything is the biggest barrier to pay back. It's a mistake that will cost alot more that any short-lived happiness from cursing someone the fuck out. You never wanna let someone know you're upset because that gives them time to prepare for what could be coming. The reason why acting off emotion is so dangerous is because if you can't see a situation clearly then you can't solve it with any sense of control, especially if you're angry.


Anger is one of the most lethel of all the emotional responses because it clouds your vision the most. Not to mention, the word ANGER is one letter short of DANGER. Take it from me, if your looking to get back at someone who has hurt you, its far better to kill em with success or kill em two years later when he's completely forgot about what happened.




Just kidding. :)

Hello, I'm Clingy.

"Some people's circles are like revolving doors" -Brook Carter. I don't understand how women are uber chummy and become fast/best friends with everyone they meet. It amazes me how someone meets on Monday and by Wednesday they're already hanging out everyday and sharing their deepest darkest secrets. Are you really that lonely? Or that naive that you believe everyone who smiles in your face is your friend?



I would think that you would want to trust everyone you're around completely and how can you do so when you've only know someone for a month. In my opinion, women need to start being more cautious with who they let in their circle and stop being so hard up for companionship. Honestly, I would rather be friendless than have a bunch of friends who secretly hate me and tell my business.



At this age, your circle should be air tight and who you hang out with should be irrelevant to who you are as a person. If you have a new best friend every other week clearly, YOU have a problem.






Note: This is not directed at anyone in particular BUT it is directed toward every chick who has a problem getting and keeping friends...and actually cares enough to befriend any and everyone they meet.
You know, the clingy bitch.

What is Loyalty?

Loyalty isn't something that can be taught. Either you have it or you don't.
I consider myself extremely lucky to have an air tight circle complete with real bitches who I don't have to watch my man around or wonder if they'll tell my business. They say, "In life, you are lucky if you have at least one friend." Well, I must be the luckiest girl in the world. To: Lynch, Crystal, Jasmine, Shera & Steevy. Thank you for having my back, never judging me and always being a friend. I love yall. *tear*

Sometime the Answer's "No!"

We often ask for selfish things
that we don't really need,
But God has never promised
He would satisfy our greed.
We can't all be rich or famous
and live in luxury.
Someone must wash the dishes
and plan the apple tree.
Everyone loves the winner
who captures first place,
But no one can remember
the others in the race.
Sometimes the things we pray for
were never meant to be,
And because we don't receive them,
we doubt His love, you see.
God hears every prayer we utter
whereever we may go,
And if he does not answer
it could mean the answer's "No!"



PRAY!




Happy New Year everybody!