We all try.....

"...we all matter far more than we typically have a clue about and LOVE is what is REAL. We tend to believe in what we can see & touch & believe that the world as it appears to be is the REAL world. I've come to believe that reality is both revealed and concealed by the world we see with our eyes and that NONE of us....are as we appear to be."

If you DON'T learn anything else in this lifetime....Learn the difference between a FRIEND and a FOE

I don't usually go back and forth with friends. I don't argue with my friends either.


I feel like if we keep disagreeing over something (doesn't matter whether big or small) in my eyes, that means we're NOT friends. Sure, friends are entitled to have disagreements because after all, no-one wants a cheerleader as a friend. However, if you and your friend argue like cats and dogs....If those arguements ever become physical....or gets to a point where you two are verbally assulting each other & going below the belt then CLEARLY that is NOT a true friendship.


What I like to call that is a chick who doesn't like you BUT wants you to like her at the same time.




The problem with some women is that they're so hard up for friends that they can't tell the difference between a friend and a foe.





Keep ya circle tight & dead the rest.

Mid 20's etiquette

Let me tell you something about me.


I dont give a shit what anyone has to say about me. They talked about Jesus Christ so Tyra Lynn Dubose is NO exception to the rule, hunny. Once someone puts their hands on you then you have every right to defend yourself. However, someone talking shit about me is NOT going to upset me enough to make me want to fight them.


I feel like once you reach a certain age, fighting is OUT of the question and should be a last resort to resolve a problem. Sure, I'll clown a chick and try to hurt her until I make her feel like she's dead inside but fight her? At 26? No ma'am.



Look at it this way, if you go around fighting every lame who has something to say about you. You will be one beat up bitch. Once you reach a certain level of maturity, proving a point to anyone should be the LAST thing on your agenda. I dont argue with hoes I shit on. And its like I always say, "elephants dont swat flies. they step on them."



Stop running off emotions and lets keep it cute, ladies. :)

If.......

"If any man puts you in a position to feel insecure or threatened, it doesn't mean that youre not good enough for him it just means that he is not good enough for you. No man that loves you will ever make you feel threatened or put you in the position where you dont feel like youre number 1.



#freerealitycheck You should pay me for this.

Relationship 101

Ill be the first to admit, Ive snooped around and I got EXACTLY what I was looking for. The thing is, I wouldnt advise ANY woman to ignore the feeling you get when you KNOW your man is stepping out on you. However, if you feel like you have to ALWAYS check up on a nigga then you might wanna reevaluate your relationship.

You think you crazy? I'll show you CRAZY!!!!!!

‎"I'd rather be known as the crazy girl who NEVER talked to you again rather than the crazy girl who can't let go & won't go away." -Tyra Lynn Dubose



I kinda believe that when someone does you wrong more than once, its your fault more than theirs. Oprah always says, "when people show you who they are, believe them, the first time." Maybe if I'd listened I wouldnt be up at 5am writing this. But hey, you live and you learn. What's life without the lessons, right? Right.

What kinda girl are you?

There are 3 different types of women.


A square, a hood chick & a "all purpose girl".


A hood chick is a woman who never leaves the hood & probably doesnt even have a job.


A square probably has a great job BUT isnt willing to take chances.


But an all purpose girl? Shes the type that can go hang in the most grimy projects
& then turn around & help make a milli dollar deal @ the work spot.



Im all purpose.









Are you?